Saturday, September 27, 2008

Visit from mom

Last week my mom was here for a 7 day visit. She and I have had our differences in the past, but this was a visit when we both let go of whatever we were carrying around from the past and simply enjoyed being together. It was quite wondeful, really. We chatted, went to a museum, went to Pike Place Market, etc., but mostly just hung out and enjoyed my children together.


My mom is someone who is, well, a mom in all senses of the word. She had 5 kids, stayed home with us, and never stops telling us that it was the happiest thing she could have done. Whe she talks of the past, her sincerity is clear as she talks about how she nursed me for 2.5 years (!), didn't regret leaving her career in physics, and wouldn't trade her life with a single other person on the planet. It's admirable, really, to be with someone who is so clear on her path to joy.


My mother doesn't have kids at home any more, but she does have 9 grandkids (and counting) and thus is able to shower them with all of her natural maternal goodness. She was so sweet... doing art projects with and reading books to Isabella, holding and cooing at Melanie, and in general shining love onto my children. Here are some pics of Granny Annie with Melanie, and of Isabella showing her Grandma what a loving big sister she is.







I tried to pamper my mom while she was here. The one thing she expressed interest in was chocolate, so, of course, I was happy to hand dip some truffles.



All in all, it was a great visit. My mom and I bonded, my kids got showered with love, and I got to play around in my kitchen with chocolate. Who could ask for more?

Thanks for a great visit, mom!

Snapshots from yesterday

Yesterday was one of those very full days. Many sweet moments, and a few moments that weren't so sweet but were pretty darn funny. Here are some highlights -

  • Woke up before everyone else, snuck up to the yoga studio, and took my daily practice. Yet again, I ended the practice feeling so blessed and grateful for all that I have.

  • Came downstairs to find John getting ready for work. Discovered that when your husband starts biking to work every day, his legs turn into rock hard sexy masses of muscle. Yay.

  • Went to the childrens museum with Isabella at her request. How could I resist the sweet wishes of my beloved child? Spent the day watching her play joyously. Below is a pic of her painting in the art room at the Museum and a self portrait of me with Melanie in her baby carrier.

  • Left the childrens museum and spent some time enjoying a wonderful Incan band playing at Seattle Center. I love street performers! These guys are great... I've seen them around lots and they always get me dancing.

  • Took the bus home from Seattle Center. Across from me on the bus was a man in tiny shorts with his legs wide open. Unfortunately, he was hanging out of his pants, so I tried to look away. Even more unfortunately, he tried to talk to me and thus could not be ignored. Him - "How old is your baby?" me - "9 weeks, and tuck yourself back into your pants please, sir." 10min later when he forgot to keep crossing his legs and started hanging out again, Isabella said loudly (to the audience of the full bus) "Mommy, why doesn't he have any underwear on?" Sometimes you just have to laugh. And no, I didn't take a pic for the sake of my blog.
  • Spent the evening at Montlake Ale House with friends. MAH is a pub with a kid pit - i.e. a sunken part of the floor with tons of toys and a ring of seats around the perimiter for the parents. So Isabella played with her friend Charlotte while we watched the presidential debate and ate pub food with Charlotte's parents Mike and Cindy. Yay for getting our kids exposed to politics so young! Here is a pic of John and Melanie watching the debate.

All in all, an excellent day!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Mul-acres Labor day weekend

This past Labor day weekend John, Isabella, Melanie, Ellie, and I headed out to our wooded property in North Eastern WA. We left on a Thursday afternoon and planned a 5 day trip lasting until the following Tuesday.


The day we left, Melanie was just 5.5 wks old. We knew that the 4.5hr drive (each way) would provide quite a challenge. I remember when Isabella was that little. She would sleep for short drives but if she woke up and wanted milk then there was no calming her down unless I stopped the car and took the time to nurse her in a relaxed fashion. Road trips at that time would have been near impossible. This time we came up with a solution that made us feel pretty damn brilliant, if I do say so myself. It worked like this - Isabella's carseat was strapped into the passenger seat up front next to John. John bought a bunch of sticky velcro and secured a DVD player onto the dash board in front of her. He put all the movies handy up front so that he could change the DVDs while driving! Also, he packed up a water bottle and a couple of small baggies of snacks for her and kept them up front so that he could hand them over when necessary. She was completely entertained and fed without him having to stop the car! On Melanie's end - I put her carseat in the back and sat next to her. Before the drive, I used my trusty breast pump to pump out as much milk as possible (see previous post on my breast pump - I love that thing!). When Melanie stirred during the drive I just popped the bottle in her mouth and she was totally happy! No stopping, no waiting. The result - a lovely relaxing drive with no crying, no fussing. Anyone who is a parent knows that a 4.5 hr drive with no fussing is a true achievement. Yay us!



We arrived at Mul-acres that evening and John proceeded to setup camp. I have to day, there was something so sweet about our first campfire of the trip. John had a bunch of wood split already from our last trip, so he just brought it out of the shed and lit a blazer. Aaahhhh... big fire on our big piece of land. Yay. Late that evening, some clouds cleared and we reveled in the simple joy of gazing upon the stars. Even the Milky Way was visible. So there we sat, warm by the fire, gazing up at the Milky Way. Yay and Yay again.



The next day, Isabella woke up very ready to run around and play. She got out her butterfly net and started chasing bugs. Ah, the simple joy of running after flies, butterflies, and grasshoppers. Isabella was just delighted. See below for her up close with the grasshopper she caught.









As Isabella frolicked with the bugs, John proceeded to lumberjack. He began by chainsawing a tree into rounds, then split a bunch of rounds he had seasoning in the shed, then split the unseasoned rounds he had chainsawed that morning. GO JOHN! Is it just me, or is a sweaty man swinging an ax incredibly sexy?











On my end, I spent a lot of time doing what moms do - nursing my sweet babe. It was quite lovely, in fact - sitting in a camp chair in the sunshine, nursing Melanie out in the woods.







As far as Melanie was concerned, she was happy as long as she had lots of cuddles, access to Mama's milk, and sufficient swaddle blankets. It was COLD! It got down to 30 degrees in the evenings, but Melanie was always snug as a bug.







Ellie, of course, was the happiest of everyone. She ran, ran, and ran some more. This trip, we discovered that Ellie is a natural cattle herder! The Oakanagon area is a free range cattle region, which means that you have to fence your land if you want to keep them out. We have a fence but it is broken down in a few places, so twice during our trip cattle came onto our land. No problem, though. Ellie took care of it! When the cattle came onto our land she started barking, growling, and chasing them. If you know Ellie, you know this is unusual for her... she really doesn't bark a lot. You could tell that she had a clear sense of the land as her territory, and she let the cows know too. Sure enough, they left pretty quickly and did not stay to graze. Yay Ellie! See below for her herding them out. Ellie is in the bottom right corner.





On Saturday night, or friends Ray, Jeannette, and their daughter Sylvie showed up. Yay for camping with friends!




And then our good friend Heath showed up late on Sunday night. By Sunday night it was getting REALLY cold, but fortunately Heath had all the right gear and was toasty in his tent. Monday morning Isabella woke up delighted to find him around, and they proceeded to have many sweet moments hiking around over the next two days. Look closely at the second picture below for the caterpillar on Heath's hand.





All in all, good times. I'm delighted that we continue to be a camping family and that a newborn isn't slowing us down at all. Yay for family, yay for friends, yay for being out in the woods, yay for our newest baby who will grow up always knowing camping as a way of life. Yay and yay again.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Home again

We are back from 5 days on Mul-Acres. I will provide a full update with pics later, but for now, a couple of quick notes -

1. Melanie is a pro camper! She turned 6 wks old today and at this point has been camping for 1/6 of her life!!!

2. You haven't lived until you have had your breast hanging out (to nurse the baby), sitting by a campfire, in the mountains, for hour after hour in 30 degree nighttime weather. Seriously, if the Eskimos can do it, so can we!!!

More later...